The law should be something inspired by the golden rule.
Something to the extent of "do no harm".
What you currently may refer to as
laws appear to be arbitrary regulations,
that have a strong tendency to violate
the law.
When you enforce victim-less "crimes", the harm is really done by the enforcer.
In such a case the probability points to the enforcement being the real crime.
The only justified "enforcement" is some that minimizes the harm done.
Shouldn't we all contribute to that?
Did I overlook some important aspects?